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The friendship challenge!

God has so blessed me.

I have attached my devotion from today into this post; its too good not to share. Lysa TerKeurst, one of my newest favourite writers has given a message in this devotion that burns on my heart as well. I know her thoughts and wisdoms to be true because they exist in my life. God has given me a wonderful friend to be vulnerable, exposed and uncovered with. I’ll let you read Lysa’s thoughts and then I will continue with my post below that đŸ™‚

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The Friendship Challenge
Lysa TerKeurst

“Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone?” Ecclesiastes 4:9-11 (NIV)

A woman becomes tender when she reveals her vulnerabilities.

A woman becomes transparent when she exposes her wounds.

A woman becomes authentic when she uncovers her insecurities.

And there aren’t many women who enjoy being revealed, exposed, and uncovered. But establishing real intimacy with another person requires pushing past the resistance—past the fear.

Friendship is risky.

To be known is to risk being hurt. But friendship can be beautiful, and worth the risk.

We can look to the Bible for examples of monumental friendships. In 1 Samuel 18 we learn about the special friendship between David and Jonathan, an example of a true bond. When Jonathan’s father, King Saul, threatened David with death, Jonathan risked his position in his father’s household and warned his friend.

Jonathan and David’s friendship lasted their lifetime, and because of Jonathan’s loyalty to David, the Lord blessed them both. David eventually became king, but by then Jonathan had died. David inquired, “‘Is there anyone still left of the house of Saul to whom I can show kindness for Jonathan’s sake?'” (2 Samuel 9:1b NIV).

Don’t miss this beauty: it was customary for the present king to put to death any of the former king’s family. However, because of his and Jonathan’s strong friendship, King David tenderly provided for Jonathan’s son. “I will restore to you all the land that belonged to your grandfather Saul, and you will always eat at my table” (2 Samuel 9:7b NIV). “So Mephibosheth ate at David’s table like one of the king’s sons” (2 Samuel 9:11b NIV).

Awesome. Inspiring. Friendship.

Yes, friendship is beautiful. The Lord gave it to us. He knew we would need each other to get through this life.

Think about a friend you can make an investment in.

Not the friend with whom you feel most comfortable. But rather one who might benefit from seeing a little more of your tenderness, transparency, and authenticity. Someone who might be worth a risk.

Someone in your sphere of influence is desperate to know someone else understands.

Might we take three steps and give ourselves a friendship challenge? Here are three things you can do to invest in a friend:

1) Have a conversation with her in which you honestly admit one of your vulnerabilities. Chances are she’ll reveal something to you as well. Then really commit to pray for her. Maybe wear a watch or bracelet and every time you’re distracted by it, use this as a prompt to carry her burden in your prayers.

2) Buy or make this friend a gift. Just because. It doesn’t have to cost much. But make an investment of time to think of something that would personally delight her.

3) Write your friend a note to attach to the gift. In the letter, tell her at least three things you admire about her and some way she’s made a difference in your life.

Then deliver this little “just because” gift and note to your friend. This friend who sometimes feels a little vulnerable. Wounded. Exposed in some way.

Your honesty and thoughtfulness will be such a sweet investment.

For her.

For you.

For your friendship.

Are you up for taking the friendship challenge?

Dear Lord, thank You for all of the friendships and beautiful blessings You have placed in my life. Help me to see this challenge as a sweet reminder to show Your love to those around me. In Jesus’ Name, amen.

Reflect and Respond:
Write down the name of the friend or friends you chose for the friendship challenge. Don’t wait until later. Your friend will thank you!

Power Verses:
Proverbs 17:17, “A friend loves at all times …” (NIV)

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God has so blessed me with an absolutely incredible friend. It’s funny, looking back I would have considered her a pretty good friend the whole time I’ve known her; but I believe God scheduled a divine appointment one day. He created a time for us to connect as sisters in Christ; to be vulnerable, exposed and uncovered with each other. That day, she became so much more than my good friend; she became my very best friend. My soul sister!

I thank God every day for Cindy. She has been such an amazing blessing in my life.

I ‘dare’ you to take Lysa’s challenge. Us ladies need another Godly woman in our lives to come along side of us and hold us up during the battles of this life; to offer a different perspective when we can’t see past our own ‘stuff’.

Thank you God SO much for Cindy! Your word describes a friend that ‘picks up’ the other when they fall down and I thank you for placing that very kind of friend in my life. A friend that loves like you do; who knows me…all of the good and all of the ugly…..and loves me anyway. A friend that is faithful and true. I thank you God for this blessing in my life and I pray specifically for those ladies out there that need a friend like I have found. Please bless them, Father. Show them that they do not need to battle alone! I ask this in your precious name, Amen!

 
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